Friends are one of the most important parts of our lives.
As humans, we need people with whom we can share our thoughts, talk about our feelings, and spend time doing the things we love.
Apart from family, our friends are the closest people in our lives, and we can always turn to them for love and support.
However, as adults, it can become difficult to make new friends or foster existing friendships.
We all know how responsibilities can come in the way of our friendships. Sometimes, we become so busy with our lives that even close friends start to drift away.
Obviously, this needs to be addressed. And what better way to do that than by using crystals.
There are many effective crystals to attract friendship that we can use to not only keep our friends close to us but also attract new people into our lives.
Let’s take a look at some of the best crystals for this purpose.
1) Rose Quartz
This is an obvious choice. Rose Quartz is known as the stone of love, and it can help you attract like-minded people into your lives with whom you can build a heart-to-heart connection.
Now, love doesn’t always have to be romantic. You can also have platonic and familial love.
So, you can use Rose Quartz to attract friends who will love you and care for you unconditionally.
This little crystal will also ensure that there is always peace and harmony in your friendships.
2) Blue Lace Agate
Blue Lace Agate is perhaps the best stone to bring calming energies into your life. This is important because this influences the type of people you attract into your life too.
If you use Blue Lace Agate, it will make sure that you only meet gentle-natured people who will always serve as a peaceful presence.
Plus, in case you have arguments with your existing friends, this stone will wash away all those conflicts and bring cooperation and harmony between you and your friends.
3) Malachite
Historically, Malachite has been used as a protective stone. However, thanks to its versatility, you can also use it to attract new friends.
Its energies will encourage you to be more positive and persistent in life. This will ensure that you don’t give up on your search for new connections.
And when you do find people you can be friends with, Malachite will promote friendship and strengthen your bond over time.
More importantly, though, its energies will keep negative people away.
4) Calcite
Calcite is one of those crystals that represent friendship. It stands for compassion, empathy, loyalty and positivity. All these qualities are needed to establish strong friendships.
So, by having this crystal, you will keep attracting more and more people who can be your true friends for life.
Calcite is also known to release negative emotions from people. This prevents conflicts and arguments from occurring in the first place.
This, too, keeps your friendships strong and harmonious.
5) Lapis Lazuli
Lapis Lazuli works on your third eye chakra and your throat chakra, which can help you attract the right type of friends.
First of all, by working on your third eye chakra, it sharpens your intuition so that you can understand which people to approach and which people to avoid.
Also, by activating your throat chakra, it helps you communicate better. This helps you connect better with people and increases your chances of establishing friendships with them.
6) Carnelian
Do you remember how easy it was for you to become friends with people when you were in school or college? Now, as an adult, making new friends can feel a little more difficult and overwhelming.
I guess this happens because, as adults, we are more fearful of how other people will perceive us or judge us.
This is where Carnelian comes in. It makes you more courageous so that you can reach out to others without fear.
And when you do that, you are bound to make more friends over time.
7) Unakite
If you know about the law of attraction, you must already be aware that your state of mind dictates what you attract into your life.
If you are a positive person, you will obviously attract positive things, people and situations into your life. This is equally true of friendships.
Only when you truly love yourself and are self-confident can you attract people who love you unconditionally.
And this is exactly what Unakite helps you do. It encourages you to be your authentic self, engage in self-love, and be confident in who you are as a person.
8) Labradorite
Labradorite is a crystal that means friendship. This is because it is filled with energies of adventure.
So, when you start using it, you will automatically want to go out more often, meet new people and establish new friendships.
If you have ever hesitated in doing any of this before, Labradorite should be your go-to stone.
For example, if you are going to a party or another social gathering, you should carry it with you in your pocket.
It will make you more confident and help you attract like-minded people.
9) Watermelon Tourmaline
This beautiful crystal is a must-have if you want to nurture existing friendships. Since it influences your heart chakra, it makes you a much more loving and caring person.
Not only that, it instils a sense of companionship in you that makes you more loyal to your friends.
In fact, you should gift this crystal to your friends so that its positive effects are multiplied.
10) Black Obsidian
Most people don’t realize this, but Black Obsidian happens to be one of the best crystals to attract friendship. And it does so by helping you make space for better friends by removing negative people from your life.
This stone helps you identify toxic relationships and poisonous attachments.
As such, you gain a better understanding of which people are right for you and which of them are ill-suited for your friendship.
Once you realize this, you can cut these people off from your life and start looking for positive and healthy friendships.
Final Thoughts
Finding new friends definitely gets harder as you get older. And holding on to friends while trying to juggle a career and a family can be equally hard.
There are a number of crystals that can help you to manifest friendship or cultivate current friendships. I hope this list has helped you find one that you resonate with.
I started Spirit of Sapphire in August 2017 after finally building up the courage to start reading tarot for people other than my loved ones.
At the same time, I embarked upon expanding my spiritual knowledge and skills and so attended various psychic mediumship courses and circles, and I also began to train as a Reiki practitioner.
I’ve designed this site to be a hub of spiritual knowledge. As I learn new things, I want to share them with you.
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